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If you’re with a man who has given you reasons not to trust him, that’s saying something about how you feel about yourself. If you’re with a guy who has crept on you, gotten other women pregnant while the two of you were together, sending direct messages to chicks with heart eyes and his phone is blowing up with random numbers late night, you’re dealing with a fuckboy. If he actually wanted to be with you, you would never have to check the next woman. But he doesn’t. He just drags you along. That breed of guy will never be honest, he’ll kiss you on the mouth with another woman’s vaginal secretions on his lips and will duck questioning by asking you why you came home ten mins late. These guys don’t enjoy dodging responsibility or flipping shit on you, it is simply what they do. They aren’t trying to hurt your feelings or make your life miserable, they aren’t even thinking about your feelings or miserable life! It’s easy to click your tongue and say “who are these dumb bitches you’re talking about?” But hop down from your high horse and tell me you haven’t been in some type of similar fucked up relationship. We’ve all been there. I’ve been there. The difference is some of you don’t question the role you play. Women who advance in life look at their selves in the mirror. They question their level of self-esteem, they question their communication skills and figure out why this toxic dynamic seems reasonable to them in the first place.
Betsy Posting
