There are no hard feelings about the new wedding announcement

[guest]

As long as it upsets Patrick then I’m okay with it

This really is the most important thing in all of this.

 

[Slackjawed Cow]

This really is the most important thing in all of this.

Thats the spirit. Pat thought he was having an ok day then gets a handful of pics of his daughter with another guy that she will call dad instead of pat. He pretends it doesnt bother him because he knows it fuels the trolls but he is a horrible liar and you can tell when someone strikes a nerve and he stealthyrages.

 

[RickReternal]

Even if Ade’s ready, how could the kids be? A lot of the quick moving on described in this thread seems to be people with grown or no children. Ade has young kids. Their heads have got to be spinning and oh the questions when they’re older…

We also have to note that Ade is a known cheat. Yes she cheated on the worst conceivable partner short of someone physically abusive; Patrick was certainly psychologically and verbally abusive, didn’t provide, is a ffwbt. For that matter, we can’t rule out that he got physical but we have no evidence.

Nonetheless, it’s cheating and you know what they say. Maybe she’s done it again and this guy overlapped with St. PCJ.

In the end, I laugh and shake my head to think that any random poster here is worrying about all of this more than P@t is. He’s busy!

 

[Salted Earth Truffle]

Ade is a known cheat

Is she? I thought she just dumped Pat and moved on to her second, better husband —- someone she happened to already know. Did PCJ confirm on his visit to the forum that they hooked up prior to her dumping Pat’s fat ass?

 

[guest]

Even if Ade’s ready, how could the kids be? A lot of the quick moving on described in this thread seems to be people with grown or no children. Ade has young kids. Their heads have got to be spinning and oh the questions when they’re older…

We also have to note that Ade is a known cheat. Yes she cheated on the worst conceivable partner short of someone physically abusive; Patrick was certainly psychologically and verbally abusive, didn’t provide, is a ffwbt. For that matter, we can’t rule out that he got physical but we have no evidence.

Nonetheless, it’s cheating and you know what they say. Maybe she’s done it again and this guy overlapped with St. PCJ.

In the end, I laugh and shake my head to think that any random poster here is worrying about all of this more than P@t is. He’s busy!

The important thing to remember is that she thinks a short guy who fixes ski lifts for a living is good enough for her and her kids, but "6 foot muscular man," professional author and actual tough guy Pat couldn't make the cut. She was the love of his life and he was thrown away by her like garbage for PCJ. You just know when he died Pat had drunken fantasies about her coming crawling back to him. Never happening, Fatso, she'd rather shack up with bargain basement Waingro.

 

[RickReternal]

Is she? I thought she just dumped Pat and moved on to her second, better husband —- someone she happened to already know. Did PCJ confirm on his visit to the forum that they hooked up prior to her dumping Pat’s fat ass?

Lappening to me makes it clear as day that they were fucking before the actual split.

 

[Joe Eyed Cow]

Ya really got under his fat skin

 

[Stent]

He sleeps with one of her dresses pressed against his face.

Maybe more than that...

 

[PogromStallone]

The widow was cheerfully blunt with anyone who implied she needed to be a tragic heroine or suffer longer. As she said to one person who stuck their oar in about it: “I know you’d find me more acceptable if I waited until you think the clock has struck the appropriate hour before continuing to live. I know the idea that I might be happy already is unforgivable. But I’m afraid I’m not willing to live for your approval when I’ve seen the three people I love most die when their children were still young. It’s better to be happy. I suggest you try it sometime."

That sounds like a thing that definitely happened.

 

[AliceWorquer]

He has so many chances to act like a normal human but he's fucking incapable of not being a dislikable cunt. On god, I nearly felt sorry for him. Some random dude is texting pictures of his daughter to him and all he can think of to say is that she won't be a bears fan. Even something as simple as a "come on badge, not today huh bud?" Would do wonders for his image. You could hand him the moral highground on a silver platter and he would toss it to one side to child a stlaker every. damn. time.

 

[guest]

The important thing to remember is that she thinks a short guy who fixes ski lifts for a living is good enough for her and her kids, but "6 foot muscular man," professional author and actual tough guy Pat couldn't make the cut. She was the love of his life and he was thrown away by her like garbage for PCJ. You just know when he died Pat had drunken fantasies about her coming crawling back to him. Never happening, Fatso, she'd rather shack up with bargain basement Waingro.

Nothing wrong with working with your hands. Beats writing books that nobody buys.

 

[HotDogJoe]

I can’t imagine being one of their kids or really any kid of a dead parent tbh. Your dad dies, and your mom isn’t just dating someone, she’s marrying him and bringing in his other kids. Now you have siblings and a new father you don’t even know. Not even to mention Annabelle doesn’t know who her biological father is. It’s white trash mess.

Very true. Honestly it'll be a miracle if Annabelle doesn't turn out to be a mentally fucked up adult. As well as the stuff you mentioned, she also has to contend with having a very unfortunate amount of pig's genes as well as the fact that when she does get curious about who her biological father is, she has one of the deepest, darkest rabbit holes on the internet to discover.

 

[Jims_Maroon_Pants]

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I love that Rick is a regular caller into da show!

 

[guest]

Nothing wrong with working with your hands. Beats writing books that nobody buys.

I didn't say there was, but Rick seems to look down on people who do and think he's their better somehow. Now he's lost in life to another one of his supposed "inferiors."

 

[Easily_Remembered]

I love that Rick is a regular caller into da show!

CHUBBBAAAAAY!

As I said in the other thread, one of my wife's friends was widowed unexpectedly when her husband had a heart attack, flipped the car and died while attempting to pick up the kids from school. He died in front of the school. They were high school sweethearts.

She remarried, to another widower, within 6 months. She's never been the same. I always talk shit about her, because damn, 6 fucking months?

Some people simply aren't capable of being alone. Compound this with multiple kids and a sudden unexpected death. But yeah, I get it. It looks questionable at best.

 

[CuntFucker .]

Not a prude, just misguided. They’ve done studies on this and people who were happily married are more likely to remarry quickly after the death of a spouse. Their norm is to be in a happy marriage and they are very motivated to return to their norm. Just because it’s not what you or I (think we) would do doesn’t make it creepy or wrong.

Who exactly would benefit from them staying miserably single? Certainly not the dead spouse. Anyone close to them should want them to be happy, especially if they still have young children who need to see a living example of a healthy adult relationship if they’re to have any hope of having their own someday.

It’s kind of sinister to expect someone to mope for some arbitrarily dictated period of time for the sake of appearance. No one’s opinion matters enough to be indefinitely miserable for it. Anyone who’d expect that of you by definition doesn’t deserve that level of influence on your life.

I’ve seen it both ways: My uncle was in love with my aunt from the time they were 10, they were married for 45 years and had kids and grandkids. She died almost two years ago and he has zero interest in ever remarrying. He secludes himself and talks to her all day. He sleeps with one of her dresses pressed against his face. I totally respect that that’s what he feels like doing right now. It pisses me off that people keep trying to fix him up when he’s been very clear he has no desire to be with another woman ever.

Another relative started dating a month after his wife died. They’d discussed it at length and she’d said that, if she died first, she’d want him to move on quickly and have someone to take care of him. The idea of him being alone scared her more than the prospect of her own death. He was utterly devastated when she died, but his kids reminded him what their mother had emphasized: Being miserable wouldn’t bring her back and would only further hurt him.

TL;DR: Different people have different needs and it’s really nobody’s business. But projecting nefarious intent or callousness onto widowed individuals who choose not to extend their misery is pretty fucking low.

Nice kind and nuanced opinion, stupid.

 

[CuntFucker .]

Nothing worse than a Kiwi who comes here trying to police opinion. Probably should stick to those greasy potatohead photoshops.

I was serious. I like what he said. Though not as much as the greasy heads.

 

[Racist Google Intern]

Very true. Honestly it'll be a miracle if Annabelle doesn't turn out to be a mentally fucked up adult. As well as the stuff you mentioned, she also has to contend with having a very unfortunate amount of pig's genes as well as the fact that when she does get curious about who her biological father is, she has one of the deepest, darkest rabbit holes on the internet to discover.

Eh, kiwifarms is off clearnet, unless we are still fucking with rick for another 10 years, she won't know a thing.

 

[Guest]

Eh, kiwifarms is off clearnet, unless we are still fucking with rick for another 10 years, she won't know a thing.

Did someone ever manage to scrape and save Pat’s thread?

 

[BoomerSperg]

I was wonder if Adrienne got remarried so fast because pat found out PCJ died and immediately started sniffing around because he hates nikki and is obsessed with his first, better wife.

She needed protection, fast.