There are no hard feelings about the new wedding announcement

[Salted Earth Truffle]

This is a fair point. Portage, WI has 10k people meaning everyone knows each other. You find another decent divorcee/widow, you better lock em down quick. There aren't a lot of options.

I saw a clip on YouTube of Kim Kardashian saying she’s afraid no one is going to want to marry her because she’s in her 40s with four (mulatto) kids, divorced three times already, and making so much money that guys generally feel intimidated. It’s not a matter of feeling they “can’t compete”; men don’t want to compete with their wives.

I guarantee if she’s worried about being a single mom forever, so is any woman with multiple kids and no husband. I’m not saying Ade is making the right choice here. I don’t know shit about the guy (haven’t had a chance to read the other threads yet). But to project nefarious intent on the basic biological drive to be with a provider, protector and father for your kids seems misguided at best.

An old friend died back in 2001 and his wife moved on very quickly, with one of our friends who used to visit him on his deathbed frequently for games of Scrabble. The guy clearly had designs on the future widow. I don’t know if they ever discussed it or had an agreement, but no one was shocked when the widow married that guy about 18 months after our friend died.

The kicker was that before her husband died young of cancer, her mother and sister had died young of cancer. The widow was cheerfully blunt with anyone who implied she needed to be a tragic heroine or suffer longer. As she said to one person who stuck their oar in about it: “I know you’d find me more acceptable if I waited until you think the clock has struck the appropriate hour before continuing to live. I know the idea that I might be happy already is unforgivable. But I’m afraid I’m not willing to live for your approval when I’ve seen the three people I love most die when their children were still young. It’s better to be happy. I suggest you try it sometime."

Luckily it’s not my life and my opinion doesn’t count for shit. I wish Adrienne every happiness, if only because Annabelle can’t be happy if her mother isn’t.

 

[guest]

I don't want to sound like a dick or nothing, but getting married a year after your second husband died, is fucking weird (borderline psycho). Especially when you consider that she probably started dating just a few months after Jon "unexpectedly died."

Plot twist- what would happen if Ade really is a cunt and she killed Jon? Pat fucking sucks, but it takes a special whore to cheat with their husband's good friend (while she's pregnant). She gave zero fucks about the possible repercussions.

She probably envisioned the idea of a man-child like Pat poorly attempting to be a parent.

 

[Turk February]

I don't want to sound like a dick or nothing, but getting married a year after your second husband died, is fucking weird (borderline psycho). Especially when you consider that she probably started dating just a few months after Jon "unexpectedly died."

Plot twist- what would happen if Ade really is a cunt and she killed Jon? Pat fucking sucks, but it takes a special whore to cheat with their husband's good friend (while she's pregnant). She gave zero fucks about the possible repercussions.

Life is a fragile thing. A construction crane could collapse tomorrow or a the wrong person coughs on you and poof. My wife isn't as young as she was when we met. I understand this so I am always, and I mean ALWAYS searching for a replacement in case she should pass. I don't want to be alone.

 

[guest]

Back then ribbing a post made it a "No Ribs." You have not lingered sufficiently long enough, sir.

SpititoutSocrates or however his name was written did that. What a fucking idiot.

Apparently. That forum was oddly constructed so I believe you’re correct. Glitchy, too.

 

[TorqueWheeler]

I saw a clip on YouTube of Kim Kardashian saying she’s afraid no one is going to want to marry her because she’s in her 40s with four (mulatto) kids, divorced three times already, and making so much money that guys generally feel intimidated. It’s not a matter of feeling they “can’t compete”; men don’t want to compete with their wives.

I guarantee if she’s worried about being a single mom forever, so is any woman with multiple kids and no husband. I’m not saying Ade is making the right choice here. I don’t know shit about the guy (haven’t had a chance to read the other threads yet). But to project nefarious intent on the basic biological drive to be with a provider, protector and father for your kids seems misguided at best.

An old friend died back in 2001 and his wife moved on very quickly, with one of our friends who used to visit him on his deathbed frequently for games of Scrabble. The guy clearly had designs on the future widow. I don’t know if they ever discussed it or had an agreement, but no one was shocked when the widow married that guy about 18 months after our friend died.

The kicker was that before her husband died young of cancer, her mother and sister had died young of cancer. The widow was cheerfully blunt with anyone who implied she needed to be a tragic heroine or suffer longer. As she said to one person who stuck their oar in about it: “I know you’d find me more acceptable if I waited until you think the clock has struck the appropriate hour before continuing to live. I know the idea that I might be happy already is unforgivable. But I’m afraid I’m not willing to live for your approval when I’ve seen the three people I love most die when their children were still young. It’s better to be happy. I suggest you try it sometime."

Luckily it’s not my life and my opinion doesn’t count for shit. I wish Adrienne every happiness, if only because Annabelle can’t be happy if her mother isn’t.

Again, I don't think any of us are seriously suggesting anything nefarious is going on nor that she doesn't have the right to move on. It's just very weird to involve your children with another man within 6 months of their dad dying out of nowhere and then already announcing a wedding within a year of him passing. This guy has an adult daughter and his LinkedIn has him doing like 20 jobs in the last 10 years so it doesn't really suggest he's an A+ provider either. He might be the best dude in the world, I dunno. Just feels incredibly immature and irresponsible to literally jump out of the funeral and throw your kids into the arms of another man.

Obviously women do blah blah and people have blah blah but we're here to talk about shit and we can only present our opinions based on how we feel. If I lost my wife I would be fucking devastated beyond belief. I certainly wouldn't be marrying some old bitch with an adult child within a year of losing her and pushing my kids into a new family setup within 6 months. Meet someone, get to know them, date, fall in love, whatever you want but, as an adult women with three children to two different men, also try to have some dignity with it. At least for a year. So that's what I think. Other people's mileage may vary. Doesn't matter to me.

 

[Salted Earth Truffle]

Other people's mileage may vary.

That’s pretty much my point. We have imperfect data and limited visibility into what’s actually going on in their lives. Obviously everyone should be allowed to speculate and render opinions. I’m just explaining why I wouldn’t lightly condemn her for it. I hope none of us ever find ourselves widowed and having to face a similar situation.

Maybe it’s my toxic masculinity but I feel a bit protective of Adrienne and Annabelle. Not just because I think PCJ would want people to regard them with sympathy rather than contempt. But because I cannot imagine the trauma Ade suffered being with Pat for so long, and I regard it as a selfless act of motherhood that she ensured her daughter did not grow up with that POS anywhere near her. Annabelle would have been on the receiving end of Pat’s insane faggoty screaming fits before she was out of diapers.

Fuck Pat, eat shit. Be happy, A and A.

 

[TorqueWheeler]

That’s pretty much my point. We have imperfect data and limited visibility into what’s actually going on in their lives. Obviously everyone should be allowed to speculate and render opinions. I’m just explaining why I wouldn’t lightly condemn her for it. I hope none of us ever find ourselves widowed and having to face a similar situation.

Maybe it’s my toxic masculinity but I feel a bit protective of Adrienne and Annabelle. Not just because I think PCJ would want people to regard them with sympathy rather than contempt. But because I cannot imagine the trauma Ade suffered being with Pat for so long, and I regard it as a selfless act of motherhood that she ensured her daughter did not grow up with that POS anywhere near her. Annabelle would have been on the receiving end of Pat’s insane faggoty screaming fits before she was out of diapers.

Fuck Pat, eat shit. Be happy, A and A.

Can't argue with that. Just hope it isn't a disaster.

 

[guest]

I wouldnt wish these texts on my worst enemy tbhya...Then again, even my worst enemy wouldn't deserve it (unlike Patrick).

 

[MonsterSteve]

As long as it upsets Patrick then I’m okay with it

 

[Antwan Kumiya]

Oof brutal. Where’s space edge at? Pat can use some reassurance from his bestest buddy

 

[Suetonius]

Again, I don't think any of us are seriously suggesting anything nefarious is going on nor that she doesn't have the right to move on. It's just very weird to involve your children with another man within 6 months of their dad dying out of nowhere and then already announcing a wedding within a year of him passing. This guy has an adult daughter and his LinkedIn has him doing like 20 jobs in the last 10 years so it doesn't really suggest he's an A+ provider either. He might be the best dude in the world, I dunno. Just feels incredibly immature and irresponsible to literally jump out of the funeral and throw your kids into the arms of another man.

Obviously women do blah blah and people have blah blah but we're here to talk about shit and we can only present our opinions based on how we feel. If I lost my wife I would be fucking devastated beyond belief. I certainly wouldn't be marrying some old bitch with an adult child within a year of losing her and pushing my kids into a new family setup within 6 months. Meet someone, get to know them, date, fall in love, whatever you want but, as an adult women with three children to two different men, also try to have some dignity with it. At least for a year. So that's what I think. Other people's mileage may vary. Doesn't matter to me.

I was gonna comment this in the OG thread. I can’t imagine being one of their kids or really any kid of a dead parent tbh. Your dad dies, and your mom isn’t just dating someone, she’s marrying him and bringing in his other kids. Now you have siblings and a new father you don’t even know. Not even to mention Annabelle doesn’t know who her biological father is. It’s white trash mess.

 

[Prince Bvstin]

"Take a look at prison stlaker" - Pretty funny line.

 

[Salted Earth Truffle]

Just hope it isn't a disaster.

As long as he’s not a Weimer-type dude who has only one reason for marrying a single mom, I think they’ll all be fine. They make such a beautiful couple and family!

 

[TorqueWheeler]

As long as he’s not a Weimer-type dude who has only one reason for marrying a single mom, I think they’ll all be fine. They make such a beautiful couple and family!

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Fair play to the app; it did its best with Annabelle.

 

[Salted Earth Truffle]

Fair play to the app; it did its best with Annabelle.

There’s a reason most teens are mortified by pictures of their younger selves. I think she’s going to grow into her features and be as pretty as she can be considering who her sperm donor was.

 

[guest]

I wouldnt wish these texts on my worst enemy tbhya...Then again, even my worst enemy wouldn't deserve it (unlike Patrick).

Who’s your worst enemy?

 

[guyincognito2.0]

Damn that's fucking brutal

No more than this fat faggot deserves

 

[guyincognito2.0]

Who says " I met my daughter many times"? A father that was never there. I bet he only saw her at custody negotiations.

Yeah he did technically see her many times. Through binoculars whilst hiding in the bushes

 

[Salted Earth Truffle]

Who says " I met my daughter many times"? A father that was never there. I bet he only saw her at custody negotiations.

I really hope his good friend and personal photographer Paul Weimer hasn’t been keeping tabs on her “for Pat.”

 

[TorqueWheeler]

There’s a reason most teens are mortified by pictures of their younger selves. I think she’s going to grow into her features and be as pretty as she can be considering who her sperm donor was.

Fingers crossed.