Can I (39, M) date a 23 year old (23, F)? (Gassers, TW: dating and sex talk)

A while back I was talking to this 23 year old. I asked her out for sushi and was GHOSTED.

Today I got a message from her with her phone number.

In the interim time period I had felt like a real creep, age gap was way too much, and I was kinda glad she didn’t reply. But now that she did I’ve been at half mast all morning.

Can I take this woman out, or am I being a ghoulish abomination preying upon youth, like that vampire Anthony Cumia?

Also there’s no way I’m wearing a condom or pulling out if it all goes well - safe isn’t my speed - so if I knock her up how humiliated will I be by the age gap? She looks like an e-girl with dyed hair and tattoos.

Patrice said that 23 was the perfect age: not a young girl, a woman who still has plenty of exploring to do

 
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They can be 30-35 and look good. Doesn't have to be low 20s...

Chasing young girls ultimately is not fulfilling. Unless you are low functioning mentally, but even those people get burnt out.

Also, what kind of a almost 40 years old do you look like? Cause you could look 28 ok, or you look 50 and this girl knows it and is just getting a free meal out of your dumbass.
Chasing, is correct. If they come to you willingly because you're so charming . . .? I wholeheartedly endorse that.
 

gassers

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A while back I was talking to this 23 year old. I asked her out for sushi and was GHOSTED.

Today I got a message from her with her phone number.

In the interim time period I had felt like a real creep, age gap was way too much, and I was kinda glad she didn’t reply. But now that she did I’ve been at half mast all morning.

Can I take this woman out, or am I being a ghoulish abomination preying upon youth, like that vampire Anthony Cumia?

Also there’s no way I’m wearing a condom or pulling out if it all goes well - safe isn’t my speed - so if I knock her up how humiliated will I be by the age gap? She looks like an e-girl with dyed hair and tattoos.
Thanks for the disclaimer.

dating and sex talk causes me headaches, nausea and online spergouts.​

 

HH Brother

I wanna fuck you up the ass, funster.
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@NoBacon pls advise on my next step. Do I send the sleepy tea bear now?
Eat her shooshi, let her blow you and kick her out of the car, brother.

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Harry Powell

You’re the girl I needed in jr. high
You're right OP better make a move while he can
This is my thought too. I’m sure some dude pumped and dumped after a month or whatever and this is my chance to swoop in, remember what young and not old gross pussy is like, and then move on.

Only problem is I’m tied up for two weeks and the window might pass. I think I still have to try before I get the old “I know, bud”
 

eggfeller

Franklin Delano Child
feeling creepy due to a perfectly harmless age gap is the result of ugly/old women successfully guilt tripping the culture en masse with their insecure bullshit. don’t let the ugly hag slobs win, child. one day soon the young pussy window will be closed forever. and you won’t be telling yourself “well at least i wasn’t a cumia…”
 

FatPatsBaps

Charming, funny, and witty, atalker.
When you think about it, in terms of intellect and maturity, what's the difference between your average woman in her thirties vs twenties?

In my experience both groups use social media, listen to Dua Lipa, and can't put down their phones.

At least with a younger woman you've got the youth (the right kind) and you can mold them to your liking.

But an older chick?

I mean, unless she's a MILF and easy, what's the fucking point? She's damaged goods, bro!

Of course I'm talking about purely sexy time. Otherwise, if it's a relationship you're looking for then as long as you're not escorting her to her prom, and you have a decent hairline and don't dress like a fat boomer, then I say follow your heart.
 
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