Can I (39, M) date a 23 year old (23, F)? (Gassers, TW: dating and sex talk)

[Hello Oneal!]

A while back I was talking to this 23 year old. I asked her out for sushi and was GHOSTED.

Today I got a message from her with her phone number.

In the interim time period I had felt like a real creep, age gap was way too much, and I was kinda glad she didn’t reply. But now that she did I’ve been at half mast all morning.

Can I take this woman out, or am I being a ghoulish abomination preying upon youth, like that vampire Anthony Cumia?

Also there’s no way I’m wearing a condom or pulling out if it all goes well - safe isn’t my speed - so if I knock her up how humiliated will I be by the age gap? She looks like an e-girl with dyed hair and tattoos.

Patrice said that 23 was the perfect age: not a young girl, a woman who still has plenty of exploring to do

 

[guest]

They can be 30-35 and look good. Doesn't have to be low 20s...

Chasing young girls ultimately is not fulfilling. Unless you are low functioning mentally, but even those people get burnt out.

Also, what kind of a almost 40 years old do you look like? Cause you could look 28 ok, or you look 50 and this girl knows it and is just getting a free meal out of your dumbass.

Chasing, is correct. If they come to you willingly because you're so charming . . .? I wholeheartedly endorse that.

 

[LockedHDD__Pot]

Chasing young girls ultimately is not fulfilling

what if you find a young gal who says the same about being chased by young guys? I'm just asking questions

 

[Rutherford_b_Blaze]

Good for you pal. Have fun and don't get her pregnant.

 

[gassers]

A while back I was talking to this 23 year old. I asked her out for sushi and was GHOSTED.

Today I got a message from her with her phone number.

In the interim time period I had felt like a real creep, age gap was way too much, and I was kinda glad she didn’t reply. But now that she did I’ve been at half mast all morning.

Can I take this woman out, or am I being a ghoulish abomination preying upon youth, like that vampire Anthony Cumia?

Also there’s no way I’m wearing a condom or pulling out if it all goes well - safe isn’t my speed - so if I knock her up how humiliated will I be by the age gap? She looks like an e-girl with dyed hair and tattoos.

Thanks for the disclaimer.

dating and sex talk causes me headaches, nausea and online spergouts.​

 

[LockedHDD__Pot]

also, does anyone here really believe a woman turns into a fountain of intellect & emotional maturity in her 30s?
I'm still waiting to see that, except I'm not waiting so I'll take my answer offline.

 

[Billy Hollywood]

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@NoBacon pls advise on my next step. Do I send the sleepy tea bear now?

She took two fucking months to answer???

That means she's def down to fuck! Something happened recently and she's on the hunt.

 

[Lucky Buddha Beer]

what if you find a young gal who says the same about being chased by young guys? I'm just asking questions

I mean sure I'm just talking about what men generally do. Feel like that side is more common.

 

[HH Brother]

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@NoBacon pls advise on my next step. Do I send the sleepy tea bear now?

Eat her shooshi, let her blow you and kick her out of the car, brother.

 

[Coonskin]

She took two fucking months to answer???

That means she's def down to fuck! Something happened recently and she's on the hunt.

You're right OP better make a move while he can

 

[WifeStoreWill]

 

[Harry Powell]

Wait a minute. How fat is this girl? What kind of quality control are we talking here?

Zero fat. Athletic

 

[Harry Powell]

You're right OP better make a move while he can

This is my thought too. I’m sure some dude pumped and dumped after a month or whatever and this is my chance to swoop in, remember what young and not old gross pussy is like, and then move on.

Only problem is I’m tied up for two weeks and the window might pass. I think I still have to try before I get the old “I know, bud”

 

[Harry Powell]

Also, what kind of a almost 40 years old do you look like? Cause you could look 28 ok, or you look 50 and this girl knows it and is just getting a free meal out of your dumbass.

Late 20s, why?

Seriously I probably look 33

 

[Libby Son Of Loin]

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@NoBacon pls advise on my next step. Do I send the sleepy tea bear now?

Oh this the conference cunt?

Nigga take her to some electronic show or gay ass indie rock concert. You can grind and not have to have a conversation

 

[guest]

Uhhh given the power dynamic this is basically rape. @Rutherford_b_Blaze and I wholeheartedly approve

 

[eggfeller]

feeling creepy due to a perfectly harmless age gap is the result of ugly/old women successfully guilt tripping the culture en masse with their insecure bullshit. don’t let the ugly hag slobs win, child. one day soon the young pussy window will be closed forever. and you won’t be telling yourself “well at least i wasn’t a cumia…”

 

[FatPatsBaps]

When you think about it, in terms of intellect and maturity, what's the difference between your average woman in her thirties vs twenties?

In my experience both groups use social media, listen to Dua Lipa, and can't put down their phones.

At least with a younger woman you've got the youth (the right kind) and you can mold them to your liking.

But an older chick?

I mean, unless she's a MILF and easy, what's the fucking point? She's damaged goods, bro!

Of course I'm talking about purely sexy time. Otherwise, if it's a relationship you're looking for then as long as you're not escorting her to her prom, and you have a decent hairline and don't dress like a fat boomer, then I say follow your heart.

 

[Harry Powell]

Oh this the conference cunt?

Nigga take her to some electronic show or gay ass indie rock concert. You can grind and not have to have a conversation

Yeah it’s her.

 

[Libby Son Of Loin]

Yeah it’s her.

BJJ it was meant to be

Make sure you get that BBJ though