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She’s moving in with me, things are pretty serious. Do I need to disclose this? Haven’t been a drug addict for 6 years.
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Am I ethically obligated to tell my GF I was an addict and went to rehab?
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If it will take some weight off your conscience say it, if you're okay keeping a secret that's fine too. She probably won't give a shit, its 2024.
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Even if it never came up organically the fact that you never said anything will be lying by omission to her if she ever finds out. Women.
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I'd be more concerned about your presence here tbpfhw
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She'll want to save you and love you more.
Dump loads in her
Dump loads in her
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It's a tough one, I'm a fan of complete openness but I'm not advising it lest it backfires, & obviously I don't know your girl.
6 years is a good amount of time so it's not like it's currently affecting finances, time, etc. So I'd say not obliged.
6 years is a good amount of time so it's not like it's currently affecting finances, time, etc. So I'd say not obliged.
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Look at you with your ability to edit
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I earned my extra privileges by being the #1 nigga poster
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No. unless you're going to put a baby in her, don't tell her anything. even then, maybe not.
it's the same thing with the old age tale of wives who know they're being cheated on, as long as it's not obvious she will act like she doesn't know so that her fantasy world doesn't blow up.
That lil spinner isn't your therapist, she's a dumb early 20's girl. she has an idealistic image of you, 10+years her senior, a father figure if you will.
tell her you're a past junkie and she will immediately think "faggot". bury it deep inside you like boq does his with his longing for twink cock.
it's the same thing with the old age tale of wives who know they're being cheated on, as long as it's not obvious she will act like she doesn't know so that her fantasy world doesn't blow up.
That lil spinner isn't your therapist, she's a dumb early 20's girl. she has an idealistic image of you, 10+years her senior, a father figure if you will.
tell her you're a past junkie and she will immediately think "faggot". bury it deep inside you like boq does his with his longing for twink cock.
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No, you’re not ethically obligated to tell her anything about your life before she was a part of it.
It’s just a weapon she can hold over your head every time you have an argument.
Give it a year of living together and decide at that point if it’s worth telling her.
It’s just a weapon she can hold over your head every time you have an argument.
Give it a year of living together and decide at that point if it’s worth telling her.
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Thats a tough one. The cons of not telling her shows you might not trust her, that you’re potentially ashamed of your issues, or even that you were trying to hide it from her. And looking like you’re trying to hide it from her because you don’t want her perception of you to change looks insecure.
I think all of the former is worse than just saying “Yeah I used to be addicted to drugs.” She may admire you being open about that, as most people wouldn’t want to discuss that. Also to a 20 year old girl…even though i’m not one…I imagine having a kid would be a bigger deal breaker than being an addict. And she (presumably) knows you have a kid, so I don’t think previous drug use would be a deal breaker. But then again it also depends on who she is. If she’s some conservative trad straight edge person she would have a hard time accepting it. But even if shes just dabbled in duh weed she might be more open to it.
I think all of the former is worse than just saying “Yeah I used to be addicted to drugs.” She may admire you being open about that, as most people wouldn’t want to discuss that. Also to a 20 year old girl…even though i’m not one…I imagine having a kid would be a bigger deal breaker than being an addict. And she (presumably) knows you have a kid, so I don’t think previous drug use would be a deal breaker. But then again it also depends on who she is. If she’s some conservative trad straight edge person she would have a hard time accepting it. But even if shes just dabbled in duh weed she might be more open to it.
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She'll take it as weakness.
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Is she ethically obligated to tell you the amount of cock she’s fucked? If she asks be honest if not who gives a fuck
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Whatever secrets you're hiding, she has hers too.
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Wise words from the Man of Six Heights.
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You literally think "harsen" is an account I made and not some stan who thought my pic was handsome enough for catfishing Kenyan hoes. You are dumb.
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Six Heights, Five Fiances, Four Countries of Birth, Twenty-Three Names, and No Friends.
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Just go back to your secret sassy, plotting group, loser...this is literally exhausting.