Genital herpes

[guest]

Fucking hell.

I dont have it, but this other "chick" I am dating (not the one whise dad is a cop) who I considered wife worthy dropped the bombshell she has genital herpes last night.

She said it only flares up once a year or so, and that it's really common... lots of people have it.

I (((googled))) it and yeah, it is common. But ffs. It really changed my opinion on potententially settling down with her.

Am I being a little bitch about this? I like her, but how the fuck am I meant to eat out my wife, or fuck her, knowing she has genital herpes?

I found a bunch of reddit threads with degenerates saying genital herpes is normal etc. I hate them so much. Or are they right?

If she became my wife, I'd most likely get it too. That I do not want.

Need some brotherman insight. Break up with her? Or am I overreacting?

 

[Jims_Maroon_Pants]

I knew a girl that my friend was dating for the longest time. It turns out she had the herp too. She was a smoke show, but after I found out I could never look at her the same way again. I dropped her from the spank list post haste

 

[Lamont & Tonelli]

"chick"

These quotes make me very uncomfortable.
In all seriousness, if you are going to be with this "chick" for a long time, you're gonna get the herps from her. Maybe not, but you gotta figure it's more likely than not. As I understand it HSV1/mouth herps/cold sores is inconvenient but not that big a deal, as these things go. HSV2/genital herps is much more uncomfortable. You can also get mouth herps on your junk, and vice versa. You can have both in both places, if you're determined. Unironically a tough one, man. Genuinely.

 

[guest]

These quotes make me very uncomfortable.

Torquie is into the man love, good for you, brother!

 

[guest]

Move on, you will never respect her

 

[JoshFromMichigan]

That wouldn't work for me, brother. How long did she wait to tell you that? I would hope that's an early conversation and if you've already fucked and dated for a few weeks, not telling you would speak more to her character than even having the herp.

 

[ShutYourCakeHorn]

I thought you were just gonna hold hands with "chicks" from this point on, so what's the big deal?

 

[Jizz]

does she take meds for it daily or only when it flares up?

 

[Uncle Floyd]

WWAW genital warts? I thought THAT was the one everyone has. Herpes seems to be the STD of the filthy and degenerate.

 

[Ha Ha Ha Holeee Shit!]

I think as long as it is dormant you’re good to go. Just gotta be very careful.

 

[guest]

That wouldn't work for me, brother. How long did she wait to tell you that? I would hope that's an early conversation and if you've already fucked and dated for a few weeks, not telling you would speak more to her character than even having the herp.

I mentioned how the sore on my lip isnt actually herpes and then asked her if she had any stds, and she told me. This was date... maybe 5? We've only made out, havent fawked (fucked).

 

[LingerLonger]

Herpes means she slept with niggers. They carry it naturally.

 

[Say “Cookie”]

If you view her as wife worthy force her to be on the meds and tell her that you don’t want that shit. You are the man here, stop overreacting and control your bitch.

 

[guest]

Wrap that rascal, bro.

 

[guest]

"HSV-2 can be dangerous for pregnant women and the neonate, particularly during the last trimester of pregnancy. The virus may cause premature labor and babies can contract the virus in the womb or when passing through the birth canal."

Well that's fucked. I dont want my kid to have herpes. Fuck.

 

[guest]

Give me a father in law who's a cop over a bitch with herpes anyday...how many niggers did she blow? Can't trust this heathen.

 

[Slackjawed Cow]

I made it this long without getting it. Id like to keep that streak going.
Props to her for being upfront about it. Gotta respect that.

 

[guest]

Give me a father in law who's a cop over a bitch with herpes anyday...how many niggers did she blow? Can't trust this heathen.

Man... it's so difficult finding people you genuinely like. And I hate breaking up with women. This sucks.

 

[Easily_Remembered]

The mere fact that you are beseeching us for advice all ready tells you what you need to know.

It troubles you, and it's silently eating at you. The most that you can hope from us is to talk you into compromising, or forcing yourself to be "okay" with it.

You shouldn't have to compromise your feelings, and if you did, over time you would resent either her or yourself for it. Props to her for admitting it before you fucked, BUT the fact that you had to basically ask her first isn't a good look.

Never settle, my man.

 

[not that Jack Horner]

bitch is only being nice because she knows she has to drop that bomb shell

trust me, if you accept this, she will slowly become the bitch she always was