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His advice was pretty sound if you’re interested in trashy women. No woman I could ever respect would put up with being treated like an object or called bitch or talked to like she was a whore, or treated like a whore.
Of course women like security, they like to be protected, financially and physically, they like to have a companion. But some people act as though women see those things as commodities. They are not commodities. Those are the fruits of a healthy, mature, responsible, disciplined relationship that has, at its core, love, respect, putting the other person first, and fidelity.
I put my wife first, she put me first. Now we have kids, and we mutually agreed to put the kids first. We don’t have a perfect relationship, most of the issues are my fault because I am a bit of an asshole, but it has worked for going on 25 years. We met when she was 19 (AGE!!) and I wasn’t much older.
But, see, she’s different than just about any other woman I’ve ever met. First of all, she’s a church girl. She’s prudent, she’s decent, she has integrity, she’s honest, she’s modest in her language and behavior. Luckily our kids are like her. They are honest, they have integrity even at their age, I thank God every day they take after their mother.
It took me years of lying and pretending before I actually came to genuinely care about any of this shit. And what I found was that it’s way more fulfilling than the lifestyle I led before I met her. There is something about being with one person for 2 1/2 decades and eventually the intimacy and that faithfulness and that fidelity comes to be better than anything I’ve ever experienced with anyone else all those years ago.
It doesn’t hurt that she is athletic and looks 15 years younger than she is. I admit I’m shallow enough that that matters to me. But that’s OK.
Because that stuff isn’t nearly as important as the other gay bullshit I just told you. The stuff that the Patrice clones and ball washers get wrong all the time. If you are some high-value man, why are you digging around with women that fall for that type of shit? Those aren’t high value women.
Go find a mother for your children, idiot.
Patrice is someone I miss all the time, other than close personal friends of mine, the death of no one else has bothered me as much. But that show fucking sucked. If he had trimmed down and simplified it and kept the cast a little smaller at times, and kept the callers/guests under control little more, it could’ve been really really good. It was certainly funny. But there were parts that were just a grind to listen to because it just became noise.
Of course women like security, they like to be protected, financially and physically, they like to have a companion. But some people act as though women see those things as commodities. They are not commodities. Those are the fruits of a healthy, mature, responsible, disciplined relationship that has, at its core, love, respect, putting the other person first, and fidelity.
I put my wife first, she put me first. Now we have kids, and we mutually agreed to put the kids first. We don’t have a perfect relationship, most of the issues are my fault because I am a bit of an asshole, but it has worked for going on 25 years. We met when she was 19 (AGE!!) and I wasn’t much older.
But, see, she’s different than just about any other woman I’ve ever met. First of all, she’s a church girl. She’s prudent, she’s decent, she has integrity, she’s honest, she’s modest in her language and behavior. Luckily our kids are like her. They are honest, they have integrity even at their age, I thank God every day they take after their mother.
It took me years of lying and pretending before I actually came to genuinely care about any of this shit. And what I found was that it’s way more fulfilling than the lifestyle I led before I met her. There is something about being with one person for 2 1/2 decades and eventually the intimacy and that faithfulness and that fidelity comes to be better than anything I’ve ever experienced with anyone else all those years ago.
It doesn’t hurt that she is athletic and looks 15 years younger than she is. I admit I’m shallow enough that that matters to me. But that’s OK.
Because that stuff isn’t nearly as important as the other gay bullshit I just told you. The stuff that the Patrice clones and ball washers get wrong all the time. If you are some high-value man, why are you digging around with women that fall for that type of shit? Those aren’t high value women.
Go find a mother for your children, idiot.
Patrice is someone I miss all the time, other than close personal friends of mine, the death of no one else has bothered me as much. But that show fucking sucked. If he had trimmed down and simplified it and kept the cast a little smaller at times, and kept the callers/guests under control little more, it could’ve been really really good. It was certainly funny. But there were parts that were just a grind to listen to because it just became noise.
