Pornography and casual sex

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I think it’s more the age you’re exposed to it. I definitely saw pornography by age 8 or 9 at the oldest.

Then by age 12 I was so far ahead of my parents in computer proficiency I was able to be online and essentially unsupervised.

I never really got into anything too crazy pornography wise. It’s more about how it changes your expectations. I also do believe it is addictive and dehumanizing and has had a huge Overton window effect.

Sex should be intimate and connecting, it should not be meaningless and empty.
My recent friends with benefits situation was filling me with an overwhelming sense of impending doom. I didn't sleep at all for 25 days. And I'll tell you how that's possible... you lay in bed, fucking a woman from sunset to sunrise.

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Every time I came I didn't feel good. It was a pointless act, with a sense of me doing something "evil". Jerking off is one thing, but just what the bloody hell was I doing? Wasting time... cumming on a woman's tits for "pleasure".

It was actually horrifying.
 
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I think it’s more the age you’re exposed to it. I definitely saw pornography by age 8 or 9 at the oldest.

Then by age 12 I was so far ahead of my parents in computer proficiency I was able to be online and essentially unsupervised.

I never really got into anything too crazy pornography wise. It’s more about how it changes your expectations. I also do believe it is addictive and dehumanizing and has had a huge Overton window effect.

Sex should be intimate and connecting, it should not be meaningless and empty.
Okay so your teenage and 20s years were screwed up because you were exposed to porn. Every generation has their own sexual issues (AIDS, before/after BC pill, etc.).

You're an adult now. What are you doing to have healthier relationships?
 

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My recent friends with benefits situation was filling me with an overwhelming sense of impending doom. I didn't sleep at all for 25 days. And I'll tell you how that's possible... you lay in bed, fucking a woman from sunset to sunrise.

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Every time I came I didn't feel good. It was a pointless act, with a sense of me doing something "evil". Jerking off is one thing, but just what the bloody hell was I doing? Wasting time... cumming on a woman's tits for "pleasure".

It was actually horrifying.
You ever jerk off in an isolation tank? You're just lying there with all this jizz on you and floating around you. It's like you're the egg again. If you take a taste you've just fertilized yourself. You could be reborn. I heard ancient Mexicans of Marquis Los Cabos had a similar ceremony where all the men of the tribe would choose one man to bathe in their jizz. Really makes you think.

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Harry Powell

Semen is the aggression of a man
Take the E. Michael Jones pill. The usual suspects have done everything they can to hijack your natural urge to procreate and flush it down the toilet. Your seed is your soul and it wasn't meant to be wasted.

PS: misleading thumbnail. Give it a chance.

This video is fucking great. Everyone should watch it.
 
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My best friend growing up was a legitimate "Old Testament Sex God" as Patrick would say. He was 6'2", funny, smart, extremely successful with the ladies. However he was completely miserable, he was an alcoholic, he had no motivation to better his career even though he hated his job as a passion (working as a waiter). He tried going back to school a few times but would always rage quit whenever it got difficult. He also had ego problems and was emotionally stunted and always had to be the "alpha" in every situation. He ended up overdosing on heroin at the age of 28. Had sex with easily hundreds of chicks, probably in the top 0.01% if we're going by that metric, and ended up dying without leaving behind a single offspring. This video pretty much nails it:

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As for porn, it is a bad habit and it is yet another example of a new technology that can be used to satisfy our primal urges and thus lower motivation to satisfy them naturally.
 

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My best friend growing up was a legitimate "Old Testament Sex God" as Patrick would say. He was 6'2", funny, smart, extremely successful with the ladies. However he was completely miserable, he was an alcoholic, he had no motivation to better his career even though he hated his job as a passion (working as a waiter). He tried going back to school a few times but would always rage quit whenever it got difficult. He also had ego problems and was emotionally stunted and always had to be the "alpha" in every situation. He ended up overdosing on heroin at the age of 28. Had sex with easily hundreds of chicks, probably in the top 0.01% if we're going by that metric, and ended up dying without leaving behind a single offspring. This video pretty much nails it:



As for porn, it is a bad habit and it is yet another example of a new technology that can be used to satisfy our primal urges and thus lower motivation to satisfy them naturally.


There's a balance to be struck. These Tucker Max pickup artists are leading unhappy lives, no doubt. But I do think periodically getting your dick wet prior to marriage is part of making mistakes associated with growing up.

But letting the need to seduce control you is a destructive path. I really think that's how the Bryan Callens of the world led down that path. Getting pussy was so easy that they started thinking it applied to every woman and couldn't stop themselves.
 
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