How to not judge everything and everyone?

[Harry Powell]

It occurs to me id probably enjoy life more if i stopped this. But how? It’s automatic

 

[Consensual Rapist]

40 year coma.

 

[CQ Beans]

It occurs to me id probably enjoy life more if i stopped this. But how? It’s automatic

There’s nothing wrong with having an opinion on others. Just depends how you express it.

 

[ミスタースパーコル]

I judge people for being judgemental.

 

[johnnynoname]

40 year coma.

it's really serious

 

[NoBacon]

Judge not lest ye be judged, my friend.

I’d have thought you’d have known this like I do, before 40.

 

[Dummy Gaynuts]

Good luck, man. Other people are awful and retarded.

 

[ミスタースパーコル]

Good luck, man. Other people are awful and retarded.

If you play your cards right it's not just "other" people who are the retards.

 

[Nigger John]

It occurs to me id probably enjoy life more if i stopped this. But how? It’s automatic

Yea I’ve gone to therapy about this shit.

Lot of it is deflection; like you are pissed in life and you throw it out at others. Lot of it is upbringing.

Gym, walk, nofap, cold showers work for a while.

 

[Dummy Gaynuts]

If you play your cards right it's not just "other" people who are the retards.

I find my own retardation tolerable most of the time. Much like one's own farts.

 

[ミスタースパーコル]

I find my own retardation tolerable most of the time. Much like one's own farts.

Mine brings me crippling despair.

 

[johnnynoname]

nofap

fuck this shit

I'm jerking off, right swiping on 7's, AND i'm going to start doing that whore thing

that boogie2988 doc got me ALL about whores

 

[johnnynoname]

WHORES
WHORES
WHORES
WHORES

 

[ミスタースパーコル]

i'm going to start doing that whore thing

Being the whore.

 

[johnnynoname]

Being the whore.

don't make a mockery of this thread

 

[UnPRePared]

You just have to find the humour in the silliness and insanity of life.

Imagine my field: concerts in the evening and gatherings late into the night sometimes post-show all throughout Europe, the weird shit you'd see doing that... I see it all the time. Uncensored, unfiltered, and never when I'd want to witness it.

You have two choices: you let it hit you hard and broooood over it, all the many things you can't control... Or you laugh at it and do your best to move on.

People are cunts. They're cruel. They're conniving. They're even dangerous. Luckily, the good far outweigh the bad, but when you see the really bad, holy shit. Anyone with humanity would have to question what the point of it all is.


So just find your your reasons, and accept what can't be controlled. My trick that helps even more: knowing what REALLY not to care about. I'll never understand how it would make someone feel better to be referred to as "they" rather than he or she, but it's so minor a thing and it doesn't hurt me. Same with being gay or transgender - it's used as a weapon politically so often, even here, but majority are kind folks harming no one (and they get a pat on the back if they buy a ticket to my show, if we're being honest).

Annoying cunts transcend gender, race, religion - pay them no further mind other than a laugh.

Everyone else? Have your party, I'm having mine.

 

[johnnynoname]

humour

why?

 

[Coonskin]

Take up a sport. Preferably a combat sport like football or pugilism, to incur enough head trauma that you don't have to think so complexly.

 

[NortheastPhilly]

Going out and experiencing things outside my own family and original neighborhood friend group was what made me stop being such a judgemental dickhead.

 

[DMbA]

Take up a sport. Preferably a combat sport like football or pugilism, to incur enough head trauma that you don't have to think so complexly.

What about a bowflex