WWAW talking to sons like they're daughters?

[guest]

I have an old friend (tbh at this point he's more a guy I grew up with who used to be cool and I have nothing in common with anymore) who has 3 sons. They're young, aged between 1 and 6, and he always calls them "sweetheart" or "darling." It kind of weirds me out. I tell my sons I love them all the time but my pet names for them are things like "buddy" or "mate" or "stinker." My wife calls them things like "baby" or "darling" and I save those names for my daughter.

Am I just an out of touch fuck or is it kind of odd for a father to talk to his son like a girl? Surely not doing them any favours in regards to their generation's upcoming war with the East.

 

[CuntFucker]

I tell my sons I love them all the time

 

[guest]

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I love you too, CF.

 

[Riccardo Bosi]

They're young, aged between 1 and 6, and he always calls them "sweetheart" or "darling." It kind of weirds me out.

Either he's so social-engineered to the point of using feminine terms for everybody or everything, or he's a pedo. You can use "sweetie" on a male friend or older son ironically, but young kids don't get irony.

My pet peeve is when a dad calls their son "son". So corny. My dad's boomer joke is he says, "you know, you're like a son to me." He's done this at least 27 times and I don't even fake laugh at it any more.

 

[Cyberatorquer]

Either he's so social-engineered to the point of using feminine terms for everybody or everything, or he's a pedo. You can use "sweetie" on a male friend or older son ironically, but young kids don't get irony.

My pet peeve is when a dad calls their son "son". So corny. My dad's boomer joke is he says, "you know, you're like a son to me." He's done this at least 27 times and I don't even fake laugh at it any more.

he is trying to tell you that he accepts your homosexuality and still sees you as his son.

 

[GloryHoleTorqueH]

Sounds like he is molesting them, mate.


Pig this is a topic you need to keep your fish mouth out of, with christ.

 

[guest]

Either he's so social-engineered to the point of using feminine terms for everybody or everything, or he's a pedo. You can use "sweetie" on a male friend or older son ironically, but young kids don't get irony.

99% sure it's the first. His wife is your typical Western white 30 something woman, i.e. a totally brainless follower of whatever is "right on" this week. He recently scolded me and another friend for joking that the England women's football team were all dogs. Marriage to that cunt has turned him into a complete faggot.

 

[Spraggy]

99% sure it's the first. His wife is your typical Western white 30 something woman, i.e. a totally brainless follower of whatever is "right on" this week. He recently scolded me and another friend for joking that the England women's football team were all dogs. Marriage to that cunt has turned him into a complete faggot.

The ladies football team look alright in stills, but when you see them moving around like blokes, I agree they become dogs

 

[1073waaf]

I see no problem with it. How old are your kids?

 

[not that Jack Horner]

my dad does that sometimes

i honestly thing it’s because his Dad was never that affectionate with him, so he just doesn’t know any better

 

[TheGhostOfAbeVigoda]

My dad always called me "boy" "buddy" or "son". He almost exclusively addresses me as "son" now, which is annoying but kind of cool. I used to watch Bonanza with him and he'd do a Lorne Greene impression that always ended with "...He's my son."

 

[guest]

my dad does that sometimes

i honestly thing it’s because his Dad was never that affectionate with him, so he just doesn’t know any better

This makes sense. This friend of mine's dad was a drunk who was never around. He could just be over-compensating for his own fatherless childhood

 

[Lamont & Tonelli]

That's one way to discipline them, I guess.

 

[not that Jack Horner]

This makes sense. This friend of mine's dad was a drunk who was never around. He could just be over-compensating for his own fatherless childhood

Thats what it is, he probably hung out with similar tough dudes and only saw affection shown by parents to their daughters

He’s also sightly autistic like me

 

[wbgreen]

I think that's been the norm in history to refer to young boys in feminine terms. See photos from a hundred years ago where little boys would be in white dresses. Which makes sense if you consider a little boy is small and helpless and only becomes a man when they are strong and capable of providing.

However, we are so divorced from our past and traditions that your old friend is just a faggot.

 

[TomFromNawlins]

I heard one of the neighborhood dads calling his son “honey.” Seems odd, especially since he’s a big dude who used to be into power lifting.

 

[guest]

I think that's been the norm in history to refer to young boys in feminine terms. See photos from a hundred years ago where little boys would be in white dresses. Which makes sense if you consider a little boy is small and helpless and only becomes a man when they are strong and capable of providing.

True but it also used to be acceptable to sodomise young boys in Ancient Greece, Rome and Persia. Progress is good sometimes

 

[Chapel]

For fuck’s sake, I remember when I was five and my parents were moving from Glasgow to Wolverhampton, I went to hug my granda and he said “men don’t hug, we shake hands”. Probably didn’t want me to turn out like his sister in laws son, who’d visit dressed in a bunny pyjama suit and do his mummys hair

 

[guest]

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[guest]

For fuck’s sake, I remember when I was five and my parents were moving from Glasgow to Wolverhampton, I went to hug my granda and he said “men don’t hug, we shake hands”. Probably didn’t want me to turn out like his sister in laws son, who’d visit dressed in a bunny pyjama suit and do his mummys hair

You've got to kind of admire the Scots' dour and joyless repression of anything approaching an emotion, other than homicidal rage.