What happens to a narcissist in the long run?

[DrSteveCarlisi]

By Edward Tierney
Former psychologist, now retired

Their actions catch up with them. All the partners they abused and cheated on want nothing to do with them, and won’t even speak to them.

The “friends” they made along the way likewise, fed up of being ignored and sidelined and made to feel unimportant.

Even their kids are usually estranged- even if they know nothing about narcissism, they know selfishness and coldness, and have moved on with their lives, to the exclusion of the narc.

Old age for a narc can be a very lonely place, as all their past misdeeds come home to roost. If they are very lucky, they have hung on to a supply, who is at least there to provide home comforts and a clean house, but that supply will be hostile and prickly, sick of being badly treated, and now might be the time for some revenge, so the atmosphere at home is generally toxic.

You will never see a happy, contented old narc, surrounded by a loving family and great friends- it is likely to be the very opposite.

Karma? I believe so, they deserve nothing better.


Source: https://www.quora.com/What-happens-to-a-narcissist-in-the-long-run/answer/Edward-Tierney-6

 

[guest]

It's not going to be easy sailing for Pat

• No retirement savings
• $36,000+ debt
• No equity in his house
• One child that he abandoned and never paid child support or made any effort to contact or communicate with
• No marketable skills to at least have an okay income
• Rapidly deteriorating brain due to decades of alcohol abuse
• No "friends" who will do anything for him besides like and retweet his posts

 

[Upton Baby Sinclair]

Lost everything, even the lovely Miss Elizabeth.

 

[Stent]

Dr Admin has an interesting channel with tonnes of narcissism content.

https://www.youtube.com/c/DoctorRamani

 

[HomeRunCumia]

Dr Admin has an interesting channel with tonnes of narcissism content.

https://www.youtube.com/c/DoctorRamani

I'm such a horrible person...I clicked on the link and saw the Indian woman, immediately imagined blowing a load on her face...

Where did it all go so wrong? lol

 

[guest]

It's not going to be easy sailing for Pat

• No retirement savings
• $36,000+ debt
• No equity in his house
• One child that he abandoned and never paid child support or made any effort to contact or communicate with
• No marketable skills to at least have an okay income
• Rapidly deteriorating brain due to decades of alcohol abuse
• No "friends" who will do anything for him besides like and retweet his posts

If he wizens up, by his 50s he can be where he should have been in his mid 20s, and get a real 1.7 highschool GPA-esque career. Like an assistant to an Auto insurance claims adjuster or something.

 

[Stent]

I'm such a horrible person...I clicked on the link and saw the Indian woman, immediately imagined blowing a load on her face...

Where did it all go so wrong? lol

Life can be confusing.

 

[Juschippinyababe]

Lost everything, even the lovely Miss Elizabeth.

Can't believe that's lex luger

 

[Udders]

They'll get whatever piece of Mama Robos estate, then promptly blow it like the niggers they are.