I regret giving my trans husband the money for his bottom surgery

[Humanatee]

I, 42M have been married to my husband 41M for 16 years. I have known I was bisexual since my early twenties. I met my husband pre-transition and he has always liked men only. We went into the marriage as husband and wife but deep down I think we both knew he was trans. 8 years ago, when it became more widely accepted to be transgender, he came out. Obviously, as a bisexual man, the transition had no effect on our relationship or my feelings for him. I've supported him every step of the way. I was, and still am, in love with him. His immediate family wasn't supportive, although over the last few years his parents have re-entered his life and begun rekindling their relationship with him.

We are financially stable. We have a paid off house, a car each, and no kids, so all our income is either spent on living comfortably or saved up. He has been on T for years and had his top surgery 3 years ago.

In 2021, my mother passed after a long battle with lung cancer. I inherited a large sum of money from her as she had no siblings, was divorced and only had 2 children. It was easily enough money for my husband's bottom surgery and I was more than happy to give him the money. He had his surgery 2 months ago.

Last week, my husband told me he wants a divorce. He said that he is grateful for the love and support I've given him all these years and that I'll always have a special place in his heart. But now he has fully transitioned, he wants to be able to go and date and have "the full gay man experience". I can't help but feel like it's my fault. I poured my heart and soul into a marriage that I thought would last forever and it's been taken from me through an act of my own kindness

 

[PorqueDealer]

Pooner thinks it will get "the full gay man experience(HIV)" as a roided up woman with a flesh tube stitched on.
"CIS" men think you are a joke, Gay men think you are a freak.
Enjoy being the target of fetishist chasers only.

 

[H0meRunCumia]

Pooner thinks it will get "the full gay man experience(HIV)" as a roided up woman with a flesh tube stitched on.
"CIS" men think you are a joke, Gay men think you are a freak.
Enjoy being the target of fetishist chasers only.

I don't even know of anyone with that fetish. If people want a dick they go for an actual dick, if people want a pussy they go for an actual pussy.

 

[PorqueDealer]

I don't even know of anyone with that fetish. If people want a dick they go for an actual dick, if people want a pussy they go for an actual pussy.

Its attraction to the mental illness and how they can be exploited.

 

[H0meRunCumia]

Its attraction to the mental illness and how they can be exploited.

Jews...

 

[TheGhostOfAbeVigoda]

It seems like if you're cool with your spouse shape-shifting into a completely different person, you're probably not as in love with them as you think you are.

 

[Jims_Maroon_Pants]

I, 42M have been married to my husband 41M for 16 years. I have known I was bisexual since my early twenties. I met my husband pre-transition and he has always liked men only. We went into the marriage as husband and wife but deep down I think we both knew he was trans. 8 years ago, when it became more widely accepted to be transgender, he came out. Obviously, as a bisexual man, the transition had no effect on our relationship or my feelings for him. I've supported him every step of the way. I was, and still am, in love with him. His immediate family wasn't supportive, although over the last few years his parents have re-entered his life and begun rekindling their relationship with him.

We are financially stable. We have a paid off house, a car each, and no kids, so all our income is either spent on living comfortably or saved up. He has been on T for years and had his top surgery 3 years ago.

In 2021, my mother passed after a long battle with lung cancer. I inherited a large sum of money from her as she had no siblings, was divorced and only had 2 children. It was easily enough money for my husband's bottom surgery and I was more than happy to give him the money. He had his surgery 2 months ago.

Last week, my husband told me he wants a divorce. He said that he is grateful for the love and support I've given him all these years and that I'll always have a special place in his heart. But now he has fully transitioned, he wants to be able to go and date and have "the full gay man experience". I can't help but feel like it's my fault. I poured my heart and soul into a marriage that I thought would last forever and it's been taken from me through an act of my own kindness

I'm confused with this degeneracy, was this a straight couple first? Then one degenerate decided to take pills and grow a pube beard and call herself a he?

 

[Jims_Maroon_Pants]

It seems like if you're cool with your spouse shape-shifting into a completely different person, you're probably not as in love with them as you think you are.

There's no shape shifting since humans can't change their sex. It's only the manifestations of mental illness and sexual fetishes from porn sick people.

 

[TorpidSloth]

It's enough to make you want to just stay home and read the Bible.

 

[H0meRunCumia]

I'm confused with this degeneracy, was this a straight couple first? Then one degenerate decided to take pills and grow a pube beard and call herself a he?

After several readings that's how i interpret it.

 

[Jims_Maroon_Pants]

After several readings that's how i interpret it.

Tyfys

 

[Humanatee]

I'm confused with this degeneracy, was this a straight couple first? Then one degenerate decided to take pills and grow a pube beard and call herself a he?

I legitimately don't know. I can't tell if this is a man who was married to a woman who then decided she wanted to be a man, or it was always two gay guys and one decided he wanted to become a woman. But then "full gay experience" wouldn't make any sense.

All I know is Russia needs to send those nukes over already. We need to reset as a society.

 

[Brooke Shields]

I legitimately don't know. I can't tell if this is a man who was married to a woman who then decided she wanted to be a man, or it was always two gay guys and one decided he wanted to become a woman. But then "full gay experience" wouldn't make any sense.

All I know is Russia needs to send those nukes over already. We need to reset as a society.

I think these people use the pronouns of whatever the thing currently is, so you have to do the work and interpret it backwards from that when reading their loony story(initially I assumed it was 2 gay guys since he starts it out as both M)

These people are so retarded with the pronoun shit. Especially when referring to the tranny as a 'he' when talking about the past when it was technically a 'she'. He fucking says pre-transition but then still uses 'he', so it's not just them being intentionally wrong with pronouns but it's being wrong on a reading comprehension level