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She's very self centered and after a year of dating I mostly feel used. We study the same thing and I helped her with assignments, test, exams, even took one or two exams instead of her
She told me I'm perfect and loving and I'm her closest person, but she doesn't feel ready for this relationship and wants to deal with her trauma ( daddy issues, insecurities, I'm the first guy to treat her right ), but then not a week later I heard she's talking to a new guy
She did try to reach me for help during exam season and after exams were over there was no word form her for a week, until she broke no contact to ask how I'm doing and if I want to chat, I said no. A week after that I stopped sharing locations and she texted me to ask about it and to say she wants to talk, saying she has some things to tell me
We still haven't talked, I told her I'm out of town, but will keep it in mind, but now I'm seeing her post swimsuit photos on IG and a lot of my frustration resurfaced. I muted her stories, but posts still show up and I can see the new guy liking them. I know for a fact she checks if I've liked her posts, since she seeks validation
I want to make her regret what she did, and given that she tries to reach me I think it's likely that she thinks about me, I just want to make it worse
She told me I'm perfect and loving and I'm her closest person, but she doesn't feel ready for this relationship and wants to deal with her trauma ( daddy issues, insecurities, I'm the first guy to treat her right ), but then not a week later I heard she's talking to a new guy
She did try to reach me for help during exam season and after exams were over there was no word form her for a week, until she broke no contact to ask how I'm doing and if I want to chat, I said no. A week after that I stopped sharing locations and she texted me to ask about it and to say she wants to talk, saying she has some things to tell me
We still haven't talked, I told her I'm out of town, but will keep it in mind, but now I'm seeing her post swimsuit photos on IG and a lot of my frustration resurfaced. I muted her stories, but posts still show up and I can see the new guy liking them. I know for a fact she checks if I've liked her posts, since she seeks validation
I want to make her regret what she did, and given that she tries to reach me I think it's likely that she thinks about me, I just want to make it worse